Space: The final frontier… 

Okay, as you have likely already guessed, I’m not here to talk about voyaging to strange galaxies far, far away. I am instead talking about a different kind of system: our internal environment and the roll that space plays in defining how we feel at any given moment and how that can drastically affect how we view and live life.  

Space is a word that has many different meanings depending on context. Whether we are referring to outer space, a parking space, personal space or losing focus and spacing out. When I think of space as a Structural Bodyworker, I imagine muscles, tendons, joints and how when all are working in harmony proper alignment creates space in our structures. But this is only part of how space affects us physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually. 

Just as our fascia learns over time to respond to what we “tell it” to do determined by our every day activities and postures, our internal environment behaves very similarly. It is directly tied in to the space within and around us and it is ever changing based on what is happening in our world and how we have conditioned ourselves to react over time. We often respond to external stimuli instinctively or automatically with little or no thought beforehand. I remember hearing something years ago that really drives this point home: When you squeeze an orange, what comes out? A silly question to be sure. The answer is obviously orange juice. But what happens when WE get squeezed or feel pressure? How we react is a reflection of our internal environment and what we are carrying in our “space”. How muddied have you become internally, and how far is your current state from where you want it to be or from what you would call your ideal self? 

How can you begin to create some harmony in your inner world that will help you better enjoy your outer environment and day to day existence? As with most things, it begins with a decision. The latin root of decision means to cut off, which means it’s time to remove that which no longer serves you and create a new path; honoring yourself and setting healthy boundaries and habits. To create a “space”, within and without, that you can thrive in and be proud of. A life of joyful expression and authenticity. 

All of this is perfect timing as Autumn is the time for transformation, introspection and new beginnings. Now is the time to really dig deep, embody change and create some space in your world for yourself. If you can begin to envision those things you want to see in your life and make small steps, daily, you can begin to make that vision a reality. 

So if you’re willing, I invite you to take some time to reflect on where you are right now; physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually. Be honest about what you’re noticing and feeling as you look within and ask yourself if you could make some more space in your world for YOU, because you’re worth it. 

As always, if I can be of assistance in any way on your path to becoming more balanced, whole and in tune with your true nature, please let me know. 

“I get by with a little help from my friends…”. 

The line from the iconic Beatles song is one that most everyone is familiar with and that many of us could likely hum or sing along to. All of us can relate to “getting by” and we all have our methods and means of doing so. But if you stop to think about it, what does it really mean to “get by” and is it something positive? If you could do better than getting by, would you? 

As we navigate through our lives in this fast paced world, we learn to take short cuts or make sacrifices here and there in order to survive and get by. Unfortunately, some of the things that we cut short or eliminate completely are things that we truly enjoy and would like to see more of in our lives but we have allowed something else to take precedence. Sometimes we can remember making the decision out of necessity, but often times these things happen slowly over a long period of time until we wake up and notice something “missing”. For me it’s usually starts by skipping a day or two and then I blink and it becomes months. Maybe you can relate to this as well?

Winter is a time when nature slows down or stops completely and just is. If we look to nature as a guide, we, too can utilize this time to slow down a bit and do some introspection; re-evaluating where we are and what we might be able to bring back into our daily lives so we’re not just “getting by” but getting BETTER. 

So how do we do this and is it actually possible to reintroduce things we have pushed aside without disrupting the balance and descending into chaos? (Okay, maybe a little melodramatic there…) The answer is a resounding YES! Just like anything we are just learning or attempting to master, it takes baby steps that slowly, over time, help regain accountability with ourselves and create a life we have designed instead of one that we have learned to accept.

I had a discussion with a friend about this recently and we both agreed that the next day we would re-introduce something simple into our daily routines. Nothing daunting or too complicated because we wanted to set ourselves up for success. I remembered how much I liked to have a cup of Earl Grey tea in the mid afternoon for a little treat and pick me up so I chose that. Just like that, I had added one simple thing into my daily routine that I CHOSE to be there. It wasn’t arduous our painful and it made me happy to know I had taken this first simple step in returning to “me”. Is there something simple you can bring back into your daily routine that will help enrich your life? Could you aim for tomorrow to start? 

In the spirit of getting better and adding positive things back into our lives, I am introducing discounted packages of three sessions which will be $35 off the regular price and can be found towards the bottom of the scheduling page on my site. 

As always, if you would like some guidance or assistance in your transformation, give me a call or drop me a line and let me show you how I can help you get to where you want to be. 

The past two years have been life-changing and unlike anything, most of us have witnessed in our lifetimes. With little or no notice, we were forced to hit full stop and change the way our careers, relationships, daily routines and even our conditioned habits looked. During this unprecedented shift we have had to put aside most of what we “knew” and took for granted and create a new reality on the fly, leaving many of us in shock, searching for stability and normalcy again.

It is not an exaggeration to say that we have all experienced a collective traumatic event that has affected the deepest levels of our beings. As with any traumatic event, there is a “before” and “after”. For many of us this meant shifting our workspace to our homes and sitting in less than ideal postural positions, changing our diets, stopping our wellness and fitness routines and trying to find how to live in this “new normal”; living in a perpetual state of “fight or flight”.

This combination of sustained high stress and makeshift workspaces has left many of us not feeling like ourselves, both mentally and physically. Previous aches and pains that came with our everyday routines have now been amplified by the chaos and changes to our physical beings.

It’s not all doom and gloom though! Now that we see the light at the end of the tunnel and are beginning to take our heads out of the sand and peek out from under the covers, we are excitedly looking ahead to returning to our lives and reemerging; but what will that look like?

We all essentially know who we “were” before the pandemic and anticipate returning to some semblance of that life, but the two-year pause has given many of us a chance to look inward and perhaps see some things we don’t want to return to; things that no longer “fit” who we are. But better still, we have been allowed a rare opportunity to start some new habits, add some self-care routines and really reemerge consciously, with intention. An opportunity to learn how to be kinder to ourselves and how to make time to honor a commitment to self-care.

I love that the word reemerge means “to come into sight or appear again.” It feels so empowering and without limitation. This is essentially a blank canvas and we get to choose the colors and scene. What will you create?

And if, as you reemerge, you find yourself feeling physically, emotionally or mentally drained or just not feeling fully settled in your body, don’t dismay. Let’s face it, this has been a trying time for all of us and having a support team to help you through difficult times is paramount to a self-care routine.

My self-care routine has always included physical bodywork but the importance of resetting things mentally and neurologically cannot be overstated.

Would you like some guidance or assistance in your transformation? Give us a call or drop us a line and let us show you how we can help you get to where you want to be, maybe for the first time in your life.